Another Resolution Gone Pear Shaped


Another resolution gone pear-shaped pear


Where do we go wrong? You’ve said it and you’ve heard it; I’m going to get fitter! I’m going to get healthier! I’m going to do a fun run or join the gym!

The decision to increase your fitness and lose some excess kilos from the waistline is usually fed from our non-committal emotional side rather than our realistic and achievable side. Using the famous Benjamin Franklin quote “If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!

So let’s use the W’s and H approach:

WHO can help assist you in achieving your new short and long term goals? A work colleague, family member, partner or friends are a great asset to include in your training. You have a much higher chance of turning up to train if you have someone awaiting your arrival. ACCOUNTABILITY!

WHAT is realistically doable? Be very clear on what you are setting out to achieve; lose 4kg in 4 weeks, drop a dress size or move up some notches on the belt. If you try to lose weight fast in the latest unsustainable diet or exercise fad, you will put it on just as fast plus a bit more. Think SUSTAINABILITY!

WHEN are you going to complete your training sessions? It’s time to be honest with yourself and your ‘actual’ available time to write up a training plan. Take into account weather, visibility and working hours and start slotting in your training sessions. Lunch time (have a break to get the body moving again, it hates being sedentary) can be utilised for group sessions or brisk walks with work colleagues, take advantage of weekend mornings to get your training done in case your day runs away from you with other commitments and your exercise plans go wayside. Be flexible with your allocated days and sessions to allow for adjustments if needed, but attempt to hit the weekly targets in either session’s completed or total time. Don’t try to catch up the following week, nail it before Sunday evening to stay on track. DISCIPLINE!      

WHY bother! This is where we use all our emotional energy in a positive way to propel us forward in achieving our goals. The feeling you get once you have ticked the box will be memorable, self-rewarding and well deserved. Remember to have those daily and weekly goals outlined so you don’t get lost along the way and lose your motivation and focus. If you start to see signs of your training plan faltering, then sit down re-focus and nip it in the butt before it goes pear shaped-pun intended.  Every day you exercise you are giving yourself a great gift for today and for tomorrow. Visualise where and how you see yourself in months to come, feel proud, confident and remain focussed. If you have a slip up, don’t be hard on yourself, just absorb it as you have the chance to make up for it the next day. SELF BELIEF!

HOW to make it happen! Position yourself in a peaceful environment with pen and paper and start allocating time around your must work/life commitments. Taking into account your current and previous history of exercise and health, design yourself an achievable first training plan. You don’t have to set world records in the first month, remember that it has to be sustainable as well as achievable. Prepare a training journal and slot in your sessions around your commitments, something everyday day would be a great starting point with the aim to hit morning and afternoon sessions. The shorter, colder winter days will make it more challenging so be smarter with your planning and focus more on indoor sessions to increase your fitness so you are up and running for when the days become longer and more pleasant. VISUALISE!

Points to remember:

  • Having training buddies is a handy tool to help prevent you from skipping a session
  • Be clear on what you are setting out to achieve and have it documented for easy access
  • Write up an achievable exercise plan and keep a journal recording your workouts in minutes with weekly totals
  • When you have a bad day, go easy on yourself and stay positive. Your health and fitness is a result of years, not one day.

Good luck guys and train smart, no brain, no gain!

Author: Aston Duncan – Forward Fitness Personal Training 


Author Aston Duncan